Hello my dear friends!
Well, all good things must come to an end. For two years, I have enjoyed sharing not only my journey as an Edmond Mom, but also a ton of resources available to parents in our community.
However, life shifts and weaves, and even as some amazing opportunities have opened up for me professionally as an author, blogger, and communication specialist, I must move on from this blog or become an overwhelmed crazy person. Tough options here, right? However, if you subscribe to the Edmond Sun, my monthly column will continue!
What I will do is leave this blog up as a continuing resource. Check out the resource page for specific topics (which I've recently updated), or just search to find what you're looking for. Chances are, if it's a hot parent topic...I've covered it here!
If you want to continue to follow my author career (exciting things ahead!), check me out at www.mmcoxbooks.com. I will continue to blog at Bookbub.com.
If you want to get in touch, write me at mmcoxbooks [at] live [dot] com.
Cheers and blessings!
Thursday, January 29, 2015
Thursday, January 22, 2015
Lets's talk about - Speech therapy...Expectations and outcomes
In our third and final installment on speech therapy, it's time to buckle down and identify what parents might expect from this type of intervention, and what the outcomes might look like.
In the two previous posts, we've discussed signs that suggest your child might benefit from speech therapy, and what the next steps may look like for getting set up with a speech therapist.
Ashley Miller, Edmond mom of two and a nationally certified speech-language pathologist who works in several local school districts, has this to say about what parents can expect from speech therapy sessions:
In the two previous posts, we've discussed signs that suggest your child might benefit from speech therapy, and what the next steps may look like for getting set up with a speech therapist.
Ashley Miller, Edmond mom of two and a nationally certified speech-language pathologist who works in several local school districts, has this to say about what parents can expect from speech therapy sessions:
"Parent can expect to see their children having fun while
learning at the same time! A good therapist is able to integrate multiple
therapy targets while engaging the child." But parents aren't off the hook, because she adds, "Parents should be as much a part of
the initial evaluation and therapy process as they can. As a result, they are
more prepared to carry over those skills to the home environment and
encourage their children throughout their regular routine."
Furthermore, Miller says therapy sessions are individualized according to a child's needs and goals, with the ultimate goal being for the child to be able to independently use the skills he or she has been taught.
According to Edmond mom Julie Butler, the experience of speech therapy has been overwhelmingly beneficial, and her daughter has flourished with her speech therapist. "It has been a great relationship for her to have. The therapist helps reiterate things we teach at home, and it helps for my daughter to see someone else teaching her those things. She has learned to use more words to communicate her wants and needs and has learned to initiate play with other children and to interact with kids on a better level."
As for the future? Butler's daughter will be evaluated at the one year mark and her goals adjusted accordingly. "Once she has met all of her set
goals or anything else we want addressed, she will be discharged."
For Jessica Toman, a mother of two children who take speech therapy in Edmond at Can Do Kids, the greatest benefit of speech therapy has been being able to have a conversation with her kids. "It was so frustrating not being able to guess their needs or figure out their frustrations. As a mom you want to help." Now, she sees what the future may hold for them..."I can tell my son will be a chatter
box, and I look forward to all he has to say. My daughter has quite the sense of
humor. "
And just in case, as a parent, you're wondering what a speech pathologist gets out of it? "The thing I love the most about being a speech-language pathologist is that I am constantly blessed to be in a position to help others," says Miller. "Working with children and their families is what keeps me motivated to constantly improve my knowledge base and skills as a therapist."
Thursday, January 15, 2015
Let's talk about - Speech Therapy...Next steps
Speech therapy. It is a hot topic among today's parents, with both schools and pediatricians highlighting the need for early intervention of anything that interferes with a child's ability to learn and communicate.
In our last post, we discussed how you might discover whether you should be concerned about your child's speaking ability, as well as some stories from local parents who have addressed those concerns. In this post, we take on the next steps...how to get a proper diagnosis and what speech therapy will look like.
Ashley Miller, an Edmond mom and nationally certified speech-language pathologist who works with children in our area, emphasized, "Early intervention is the absolute key!" She said if you have any concerns about how your child is functioning in four areas - articulation, expressive and/or receptive language, fluency, or voice (see previous post for descriptions) - there are free resources to address concerns.
In our last post, we discussed how you might discover whether you should be concerned about your child's speaking ability, as well as some stories from local parents who have addressed those concerns. In this post, we take on the next steps...how to get a proper diagnosis and what speech therapy will look like.
Ashley Miller, an Edmond mom and nationally certified speech-language pathologist who works with children in our area, emphasized, "Early intervention is the absolute key!" She said if you have any concerns about how your child is functioning in four areas - articulation, expressive and/or receptive language, fluency, or voice (see previous post for descriptions) - there are free resources to address concerns.
"For children ages 0-3,
SoonerStart evaluations are available free of charge through state and federal
funding. SoonerStart evaluations include assessment across all areas of functioning.
For children ages 3-21, your local school district is responsible for assisting
families with concerns." Miller recommends that you contact your local school building or district’s ChildFind office to talk to someone about screenings and/or evaluations. She also says discussing these concerns with your
pediatrician is important. She encouraged those looking for more information regarding typical
development and identification of communication disorders to visit
identifythesigns.org.
For Edmond mom Julie Butler, the process was pretty straightforward. "Our pediatrician recommended the place where we are. I
called them and set up an evaluation. It lasted an hour and the therapist spoke
with me afterwards about the findings and her recommendations." At that point, the Butlers and the therapist set goals that are reviewed every 6 months and adjusted accordingly.
For Jessica Toman, a mom of two young children who take speech therapy at Can Do Kids in Edmond, the process was a little more complicated. "For my daughter we learned that the school system would test her, but not until she was 3. Three was the magic age where we could get a hearing test at the doctor also." She mentioned that some libraries set up testing dates during the summer, but they were out of town at the time. Toman did have her daughter tested that fall at the 3-year mark, and the doctor referred them to Can Do Kids. "We have had a wonderful experience there...my daughter and son were given an hour-long test to determine their needs, and next a request was made to the insurance company to say speech would benefit my child." A plan was set up and Toman's daughter went a year for two weekly appointments, which has since dropped down to once a week.
For both mothers, speech therapy has been an interesting experience, one that has challenged their expectations of the process. According to Butler--
"Since my
daughter's issues were not as much speech related as language related, I wasn't
sure what good 'speech' would do her.
But I have very been surprised at what they cover and work on. She is given gym
time to help her socialization skills and they incorporate technology and play
to help her achieve her set goals. The therapist always visits with me after a
session to tell me what they worked on and how my daughter did. I ask questions on
how we can work on things at home and tell her what issues we are seeing that
we would like addressed."
Toman has also been pleasantly surprised. "I went to speech a couple
years during grade school. It was a
little different than my experience. They [the kids] are younger and don’t just go over
flash cards. They utilize a small gym, play games, use the iPad, and other
activities to involve the kids in communication and pronunciation."
Stay tuned next week as we discuss speech therapy expectations and outcomes!
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Let's talk about - Speech Therapy: What are the signs?
One of the greatest things about being a mom is sharing my journey with other parents. Every family is so unique, with challenges all their own. One such issue I recently came across is the need for speech therapy.
When I first thought about speech therapy, my mind brought up images of flashcards and lisps, as well as the thought that it wouldn't be something for parents to pursue until their kids are in elementary school. How wrong I was! Through several acquaintances, I discovered that speech therapy is something parents become aware of the need for early on.
On that note, we will be covering these topics during the month of January...
January 8 - Signs your child might need speech therapy (keep reading below!).
January 15 - Next steps for speech therapy.
January 22 - Speech therapy expectations and outcomes.
I didn't think too much about my children starting to talk. They have what we call the "Volland" gene in my family, which means they talk often and more often. We are not a historically quiet family. But as I started interviewing moms who had started speech therapy for their children, it became apparent to me that only a parent knows his or her children well enough to know what they need.
However, trying to determine whether your child needs to start down this road can still be fraught with uncertainty. How happy was I to talk to Ashley Miller, an Edmond mom and nationally certified speech pathologist. She said children present with delays in one (or more) of the following areas:
1. Articulation - Can you understand what your child is saying?
2. Expressive and/or receptive language - Can the child expressively communicate and understand language? Can they express ideas and follow directions?
3. Fluency - Does the child stutter (or something of that nature)?
4. Voice - Does the child have a breathy or hoarse quality or nasal sounding voice?
"Also," she said, "don't underestimate the impact of hearing loss. Many pediatricians are able to screen your child's hearing in their office or will be able to refer you to a local audiologist for full evaluation. Other concerns parents may have include issues with swallowing and/or feeding skills as well as reading difficulties."
When I first thought about speech therapy, my mind brought up images of flashcards and lisps, as well as the thought that it wouldn't be something for parents to pursue until their kids are in elementary school. How wrong I was! Through several acquaintances, I discovered that speech therapy is something parents become aware of the need for early on.
On that note, we will be covering these topics during the month of January...
January 8 - Signs your child might need speech therapy (keep reading below!).
January 15 - Next steps for speech therapy.
January 22 - Speech therapy expectations and outcomes.
I didn't think too much about my children starting to talk. They have what we call the "Volland" gene in my family, which means they talk often and more often. We are not a historically quiet family. But as I started interviewing moms who had started speech therapy for their children, it became apparent to me that only a parent knows his or her children well enough to know what they need.
However, trying to determine whether your child needs to start down this road can still be fraught with uncertainty. How happy was I to talk to Ashley Miller, an Edmond mom and nationally certified speech pathologist. She said children present with delays in one (or more) of the following areas:
1. Articulation - Can you understand what your child is saying?
2. Expressive and/or receptive language - Can the child expressively communicate and understand language? Can they express ideas and follow directions?
3. Fluency - Does the child stutter (or something of that nature)?
4. Voice - Does the child have a breathy or hoarse quality or nasal sounding voice?
"Also," she said, "don't underestimate the impact of hearing loss. Many pediatricians are able to screen your child's hearing in their office or will be able to refer you to a local audiologist for full evaluation. Other concerns parents may have include issues with swallowing and/or feeding skills as well as reading difficulties."
Next I had the opportunity to speak with two different moms whose children take speech therapy here in Edmond. I asked them about their experience with making the decision to pursue this type of intervention. Julie Butler told me this about her daughter, who was age 3 at the time of diagnosis: "We felt that she was behind in the way she interacted with other kids and that her vocabulary/communication skills did not match her age."
A recommendation from the pediatrician put Butler's daughter at the office where she is now.
Mom Jessica Toman had a similar experience--both for her daughter and her son. "For my daughter--my oldest child in speech--it was harder to figure out. She knew how to identify many items and did so above others her age. But she is also shy. So it took me a bit to realize she wasn't really putting words together like other children her age, even when she was speaking to me. If she wanted a sandwich, she would just say 'sandwich.'" A doctor recommended Toman's daughter to Can Do Kids in Edmond. Following that, the process of diagnosing Toman's son was easier, especially when he wasn't saying much at 18 months. When Toman approached the doctor with her concerns, she was able to get an immediate referral and an early start on the process.
Moral of these stories? Don't hesitate to ask questions. Addressing concerns early can lead to greater benefits for your child and peace of mind. Every family's journey will be different, but if you have some of the same concerns for your child, it never hurts to gets some answers.
Stay tuned next week as we look at speech therapy--diagnosis and treatment!
Thursday, January 1, 2015
6 "parently" resolutions for the New Year
Happy 2015!
Yet again, another year has snuck up on me. Somehow, since I've had kids, the years are zipping past, and my birthday in February rolls by with a "Say what?"
Yep, I'm gettin' older. Fact of life. But I'm going to be a parent for years to come (God willing), and each day, I think there are definitely some things I could work on.
No, I'm not talking about becoming a Pinterest mom or volunteering for every little itty bitty thing. The six items on my list are just small everyday choices, but ones that may have lifelong benefits.
1. Play more...I will be the first to admit I am not especially creative when it comes to playing with little kids. It takes some energy to get into the idea of a "princess school" or "doggie tea party." But why am I so reluctant? In less than ten years, I'll be lucky to be included in any of my daughter or son's downtime, so that's what I need to remember when I'm sitting on the floor surrounded by stuffed animals.
2. "Electronic-cize" less...in line with my first resolution, one way to make sure we're all playing more together as a family is to limit time on computers, smartphones, and the television. Now, I've never been one to set exact limits, but one of my rules, which is not to turn the television on after school until I've started fixing dinner, has already caused my kids to play more together. Also, stowing the phone during family time--even when we're all sitting down to watch a show--is another way to keep myself "in the moment."
3. Lower my voice...I have a friend who once gave up "yelling" for Lent. It was very entertaining for those forty days. Now, as my kids get older, I find myself doing the whole raising my voice thing when I really need to get their attention and responsive behavior--quickly. But lately, both me and my vocal chords think maybe I'm relying on this more than implementing consequences (which are more time consuming than the yelling thing). But, to be effective, I need to make rules and follow through with penalties, so add "limit yelling" to my list.
4. Have more adventures...I am the daughter of parents who thought they'd try taking me to London with them when I was 18 months old. As they tell the story, it was one heck of a trip, and I'm not up for the same experience. But now that my kids are a little easier to control and reason with, it's time to hit the road and the skies. It doesn't have to be fancy, but we all need to get out of our comfort zone.
5. Perfect my picture keeping...I had this conversation just a few days ago with a friend. Is it possible that my last three years of pictures are really only on the computer? It's not that I can't show them to the kids there, but there's something special about being able to set out an album or box of pictures and go through them with your fingers. I vow to give Shutterfly some serious business and get all those prints ordered and organized!
6. Remember myself...Through all this, my greatest commitment is to my family, but it doesn't mean I--Megan Cox, writer, runner, former ice skater, journalist, mediocre piano player, soulful singer--has to disappear. There are times each day, week, and month that I take for myself, and that's okay. Valuing myself is a great model for my daughter and son, and it's important for kids to remember that their parents are people too--not just older folk meant to do their bidding.
Well, that's my list. What's yours? Don't just make a resolution this year...make a purpose.
Cheers.
Yet again, another year has snuck up on me. Somehow, since I've had kids, the years are zipping past, and my birthday in February rolls by with a "Say what?"
Yep, I'm gettin' older. Fact of life. But I'm going to be a parent for years to come (God willing), and each day, I think there are definitely some things I could work on.
No, I'm not talking about becoming a Pinterest mom or volunteering for every little itty bitty thing. The six items on my list are just small everyday choices, but ones that may have lifelong benefits.
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| 2015: more doggie tea parties, less smart phone. |
2. "Electronic-cize" less...in line with my first resolution, one way to make sure we're all playing more together as a family is to limit time on computers, smartphones, and the television. Now, I've never been one to set exact limits, but one of my rules, which is not to turn the television on after school until I've started fixing dinner, has already caused my kids to play more together. Also, stowing the phone during family time--even when we're all sitting down to watch a show--is another way to keep myself "in the moment."
3. Lower my voice...I have a friend who once gave up "yelling" for Lent. It was very entertaining for those forty days. Now, as my kids get older, I find myself doing the whole raising my voice thing when I really need to get their attention and responsive behavior--quickly. But lately, both me and my vocal chords think maybe I'm relying on this more than implementing consequences (which are more time consuming than the yelling thing). But, to be effective, I need to make rules and follow through with penalties, so add "limit yelling" to my list.
4. Have more adventures...I am the daughter of parents who thought they'd try taking me to London with them when I was 18 months old. As they tell the story, it was one heck of a trip, and I'm not up for the same experience. But now that my kids are a little easier to control and reason with, it's time to hit the road and the skies. It doesn't have to be fancy, but we all need to get out of our comfort zone.
5. Perfect my picture keeping...I had this conversation just a few days ago with a friend. Is it possible that my last three years of pictures are really only on the computer? It's not that I can't show them to the kids there, but there's something special about being able to set out an album or box of pictures and go through them with your fingers. I vow to give Shutterfly some serious business and get all those prints ordered and organized!
6. Remember myself...Through all this, my greatest commitment is to my family, but it doesn't mean I--Megan Cox, writer, runner, former ice skater, journalist, mediocre piano player, soulful singer--has to disappear. There are times each day, week, and month that I take for myself, and that's okay. Valuing myself is a great model for my daughter and son, and it's important for kids to remember that their parents are people too--not just older folk meant to do their bidding.
Well, that's my list. What's yours? Don't just make a resolution this year...make a purpose.
Cheers.
Thursday, December 25, 2014
Let's make a tradition...surviving Christmas vacation with a few favorite things
Merry Christmas!
I am obviously writing this a few days before that fun day, because I'm not actually going to blog on Christmas! Hope you are enjoying bright happy faces and lots of yummy turkey right now. I know I am.
Now, next up...
Christmas break!
Oh how excited I used to be at those words! As a child, it meant two weeks off from school, and even though I was desperately missing my friends by the end of it, two weeks without homework was well worth the price. Besides, I had a younger brother who would play whatever I wanted (Barbies, etc.), so yeah, it was awesome.
Then I became a grownup and went to work. Christmas break got much shorter, but it was still the time of year my husband and I would make an effort to travel to see our families.
Then I had kids. And even though I still say, "Yay! Christmas break!" suddenly, there's much more pressure to fill those long winter days.
Well, I've got just the ticket for families of all ages, because, let's face it, I am a playdate guru at this point, and I've learned what a variety of ages like. So here's a few spots to hang on a cold winter's day that do not involve shopping (besides, you already know where to take yourself shopping after a month of heavy practice).
Let's go to the movies - Don't you dare groan at me. I am a movie buff. A fanatic! Unlike many parents who give up trips to the theater when they give up their car to carseats, my husband and I still make monthly trips to the big screen (courtesy of some very awesome in-laws). This is a time of year where film studios pull out the big guns, which means inspirational, exciting, and kid-friendly stuff is in abundance. Your kid might be old enough for inspiring movies like Unbroken, but if not, the Penguins of Madagascar and the new Annie are pretty entertaining fare as well.
Let's skate - I will admit, as a former competitive figure skater, that ice skating is high on my list of fun, simply because I know I'm not going to spend much time on my butt (you know, until I try some of my old tricks; oh, and my back will hurt for days after doing a layback spin!). Watching my kiddos start to get their own feet under them and the amazing way my husband never seems to struggle after spending years at a time off the ice (I despise those born athletes sometimes!) is a fun gig for our family. So get brave! Or get a little Frozen inspired. Then, after you hit the ice (hopefully not literally), go get cocoa or Mexican food or whatever makes you warm and cozy inside.
Let's get smart and have fun - Okay, I'm a sucker for history and science! A writer like me has to be, or we wouldn't get all inspired by the past and present and create articles and books about them (I am convinced that in my next life, I will either return as an archaeologist or geneticist--fascinating stuff!) My favorite spot in Edmond for history is obviously the Edmond Historical Society, which has the coolest mini "Old West" town for younger kids. Then, just down the way is the Science Museum of Oklahoma, with items and activities of interest for all ages (if you hurry, you can still do the Olympic display upstairs, where my husband and I have enjoyed racing our two-year-old in the 50-yard dash. BTW - no current or future track stars in this family).
So get a positive attitude, drag yourself out of the house, and have some more holiday fun. If you're inclined to get outside, remember that most of the local light displays will run through the New Year. And if it's just too darn cold and blizzardy, make a pot of chili, play a board game, and sit down for a relaxed family dinner.
At the end of the break, and even many years later, your kids will remember the family time.
Happy New Year!
I am obviously writing this a few days before that fun day, because I'm not actually going to blog on Christmas! Hope you are enjoying bright happy faces and lots of yummy turkey right now. I know I am.
Now, next up...
Christmas break!
Oh how excited I used to be at those words! As a child, it meant two weeks off from school, and even though I was desperately missing my friends by the end of it, two weeks without homework was well worth the price. Besides, I had a younger brother who would play whatever I wanted (Barbies, etc.), so yeah, it was awesome.
Then I became a grownup and went to work. Christmas break got much shorter, but it was still the time of year my husband and I would make an effort to travel to see our families.
Then I had kids. And even though I still say, "Yay! Christmas break!" suddenly, there's much more pressure to fill those long winter days.
Well, I've got just the ticket for families of all ages, because, let's face it, I am a playdate guru at this point, and I've learned what a variety of ages like. So here's a few spots to hang on a cold winter's day that do not involve shopping (besides, you already know where to take yourself shopping after a month of heavy practice).
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| The AMC at Quail Springs has 24 theaters! |
Let's go to the movies - Don't you dare groan at me. I am a movie buff. A fanatic! Unlike many parents who give up trips to the theater when they give up their car to carseats, my husband and I still make monthly trips to the big screen (courtesy of some very awesome in-laws). This is a time of year where film studios pull out the big guns, which means inspirational, exciting, and kid-friendly stuff is in abundance. Your kid might be old enough for inspiring movies like Unbroken, but if not, the Penguins of Madagascar and the new Annie are pretty entertaining fare as well.
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| Arctic Edge is the perfect skating destination. |
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Science Museum Oklahoma |
Let's get smart and have fun - Okay, I'm a sucker for history and science! A writer like me has to be, or we wouldn't get all inspired by the past and present and create articles and books about them (I am convinced that in my next life, I will either return as an archaeologist or geneticist--fascinating stuff!) My favorite spot in Edmond for history is obviously the Edmond Historical Society, which has the coolest mini "Old West" town for younger kids. Then, just down the way is the Science Museum of Oklahoma, with items and activities of interest for all ages (if you hurry, you can still do the Olympic display upstairs, where my husband and I have enjoyed racing our two-year-old in the 50-yard dash. BTW - no current or future track stars in this family).
So get a positive attitude, drag yourself out of the house, and have some more holiday fun. If you're inclined to get outside, remember that most of the local light displays will run through the New Year. And if it's just too darn cold and blizzardy, make a pot of chili, play a board game, and sit down for a relaxed family dinner.
At the end of the break, and even many years later, your kids will remember the family time.
Happy New Year!
Thursday, December 18, 2014
Let's make a tradition...Christmas Eve candlelight services
I will admit that my favorite time of year is Christmas, despite the overall craziness of the season. However, you may be surprised to discover that Christmas is not my most favorite day.
Actually, my favorite day is Christmas Eve.
Why, you ask? Well, I could say that the anticipation of Christmas morning invigorates me, or that I love mingling with last minute shoppers. I could say that it's easier to get my kids to listen to the true story of Christmas that day, or that I enjoy serving my family's traditional, relaxed Christmas Eve buffet. And all of that would be true...but it may not be the reason.
I believe the reason is that I look forward to - all year long - the candlelight service. To me, there is nothing like a church filled with only candlelight, a congregation lifting their voices acapella, to sing "Silent Night."
I LOVE it. It reminds me of why this really is the most beautiful season, and it helps me recall many, many memories of attending similar services with my family since I can remember. Nothing says Christmas to me quite like it.
It is a tradition for sure, one that I hope my children will someday value as much as I do.
So, in the interest of perhaps getting you to start your own candlelight tradition, here's a list of local services for 2014. If you're non-religious, it's still a great way to share the beauty and wonder of Christmas with others, to perhaps take time to breathe and recall why the holidays are special to you. And, if for some reason going to a service just isn't feasible, grab a lighter and a candle (surely, you have a candle - they're not that old-fashioned!) and do your own version (safely, of course).
And have a Merry Christmas, Happy Holiday, or however you call it that brings meaning to you!
(All times listed are for December 24 unless otherwise specified. Also, please check sites to confirm a service is candlelight.)
Acts 2 United Methodist Church - 3:30, 5, & 7 pm
Coffee Creek Baptist Church - 7 pm (December 23 only)
Crossings Community Church - 12, 3, 4:30, 5, 6, 7, & 11 pm (check site for auditorium location) (6, 7, & 8 pm, December 23)
Edmond's First Baptist Church - 6 pm
First Presbyterian - 8 pm
First United Methodist - 4, 7, & 11 pm
Holy Trinity - 3 & 11 pm
Life Church (Edmond) - 2:30, 4, 5:30, & 7 pm (6 & 7:30, December 23)
Quail Springs Baptist Church - 3:30 & 5 pm
Quail Springs United Methodist Church - 6 & 11 pm
Santa Fe Presbyterian - 5 & 11 pm
St. John the Baptist Catholic Church - 4 pm
St. Monica Catholic Church - 4, 6, & 9 pm, and midnight
Please post more services in the comments section or send times and web addresses here.
Actually, my favorite day is Christmas Eve.
Why, you ask? Well, I could say that the anticipation of Christmas morning invigorates me, or that I love mingling with last minute shoppers. I could say that it's easier to get my kids to listen to the true story of Christmas that day, or that I enjoy serving my family's traditional, relaxed Christmas Eve buffet. And all of that would be true...but it may not be the reason.
I LOVE it. It reminds me of why this really is the most beautiful season, and it helps me recall many, many memories of attending similar services with my family since I can remember. Nothing says Christmas to me quite like it.
It is a tradition for sure, one that I hope my children will someday value as much as I do.
So, in the interest of perhaps getting you to start your own candlelight tradition, here's a list of local services for 2014. If you're non-religious, it's still a great way to share the beauty and wonder of Christmas with others, to perhaps take time to breathe and recall why the holidays are special to you. And, if for some reason going to a service just isn't feasible, grab a lighter and a candle (surely, you have a candle - they're not that old-fashioned!) and do your own version (safely, of course).
And have a Merry Christmas, Happy Holiday, or however you call it that brings meaning to you!
(All times listed are for December 24 unless otherwise specified. Also, please check sites to confirm a service is candlelight.)
Acts 2 United Methodist Church - 3:30, 5, & 7 pm
Coffee Creek Baptist Church - 7 pm (December 23 only)
Crossings Community Church - 12, 3, 4:30, 5, 6, 7, & 11 pm (check site for auditorium location) (6, 7, & 8 pm, December 23)
Edmond's First Baptist Church - 6 pm
First Presbyterian - 8 pm
First United Methodist - 4, 7, & 11 pm
Holy Trinity - 3 & 11 pm
Life Church (Edmond) - 2:30, 4, 5:30, & 7 pm (6 & 7:30, December 23)
Quail Springs Baptist Church - 3:30 & 5 pm
Quail Springs United Methodist Church - 6 & 11 pm
Santa Fe Presbyterian - 5 & 11 pm
St. John the Baptist Catholic Church - 4 pm
St. Monica Catholic Church - 4, 6, & 9 pm, and midnight
Please post more services in the comments section or send times and web addresses here.
Thursday, December 11, 2014
Let's make a tradition - Christmas lights!
I remember the first time I walked through a park of dazzling Christmas lights. If you can believe it, that experience took place the first time I visited Oklahoma, during the week of Thanksgiving 2000.
That week, my boyfriend (now husband) had driven us from our college campuses in frosty Colorado Springs down to his hometown of Tuttle, Oklahoma. He apologized for the gray, open landscape, worried an East Coaster such as myself would take offense to the lack of towering trees and tightly packed cities. He promised the Oklahoma countryside was lush and beautiful in the spring and even prettier in the summer, but all I could think was, “Gosh this sky is big.”
Well, I did get my first taste of Oklahoma beauty that weekend, just not in the way you would think. My husband, who had helped with the Chickasha Festival of Light as a youngster and knew this was my absolutely favorite time of year, took me to the display.
It was love at first sight. A home run for him, certainly.
Now, fourteen years, several cross-country moves, and two kids later, as Edmond residents we have enjoyed several of the light displays the metro area has to offer. The Yukon and Midwest City lights make my children’s eyes glow, just as mine glowed that frigid evening back in 2000. Going to view a Christmas light display has become a cherished family tradition, so here are some possibilities to get your own started.
Yukon’s Christmas in the Park (about 24 miles SW of Edmond)
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| Yukon's Christmas in the Park |
What: Yukon’s Christmas in the Park, a three-mile driving tour offering 100 acres of lights spread through three interconnecting parks. Other ways to view the lights include a self-guided walking tour or the Santa Express Train from 6 to 10 pm (weather permitting). Admission is free, but donations are accepted (train tickets are $2).
When: Christmas in the Park will run from November 22 through New Year’s Eve. It is open 6 to 11 p.m. every night.
Where: Christmas in the Park is located between Holly and Cornwell Street in Yukon. To alleviate traffic, visitors are encouraged to take exit 138 off of Interstate 40 to enter the attraction.
Why: “You can’t leave Christmas in the Park without a smile on your face,” says Dana Deckard, Executive Administrative Assistant of the City of Yukon. Find out more at www.cityofyukonok.gov .
Midwest City’s Holiday Lights Spectacular (about 22 miles SE of Edmond)
What: Midwest City’s Holiday Lights Spectacular offers a 1.5 mile tour with many animated light displays. Admission is free, and carriage rides are available at $7 per person.
When: The Holiday Lights Spectacular runs from November 20 through December 30. It will be open from 6 to 10 p.m. Sunday through Thursday and 6 to 11 p.m. Friday and Saturday.
Where: In Joe B. Barnes Regional Park, located in the heart of Midwest City. From I-40 or I -240, exit Douglas Boulevard North and follow the snowflakes heading west on S.E 15th to the entrance at Century Blvd.
Why: “Midwest City hosts the largest animated Holiday Lights Spectacular in the West,” says Leisa Haynes, special events and recreation assistant for Midwest City. “Elves are busy baking in the candy machine while fancy ponies dance around the carousel, poinsettias light up a holiday greeting, and Santa kicks a soccer ball.” In addition, the event has a 118-foot twirling Christmas tree. Find out more at www.midwestcityok.org.
Chickasha Festival of Light (about 55 miles SE of Edmond)
What: The Chickasha Festival of Light has been awing metro residents for 17 years, and its 43 acres of lights offers drive through or walk through touring with free admission. The event includes a bus tour ($3), carriage rides ($6 per person), and photos with Santa available for purchase. Food trucks will also be on site.
When: The Festival of Light will run from November 22 through December 31. It will be open 6 to 10 p.m. Sunday through Thursday and 6 to 11 p.m. Friday and Saturday.
Where: Located in Shannon Springs Park in Chickasha.
Why: “It’s gorgeous, fun, and always memorable, and you leave ready to come back for more,” says Festival of Light Board Member Jen Jantzen. Find out more at www.chickashafestivaloflight.com.
And that’s not all. If you want to stay a little closer to home, the lights downtown may not be quite as spectacular as the acres at these designated light displays, but they will no doubt dazzle your family too, so take a stroll through Bricktown or the Myriad Gardens and enjoy. Also, please note that the Kingfisher light display is closed this year due to bridge construction.
This is the season for light and joy, so make the most of it. There are many events to choose from, and the gift will be making a lasting and bright memory with those you love.
Thursday, December 4, 2014
Let's make a tradition - Christmas memories that stick like snowflakes
I have plenty of fond childhood memories of Christmas. Plen-ty.
In Los Angeles and later in Atlanta, my family of five (I was the middle child, so take that as you will) would pile in the minivan and carol out to some Christmas tree farm to pick a winner. It was usually an all-day event, with my mom feeling sorry for the scrawniest of trees and telling my dad we should pick it, and he and my older sister in turn telling her she was crazy - the trees don't actually care. Meanwhile, I'd be chasing my little brother and several of our Australian shepherds around, trying to keep the dogs from christening other unsuspecting people's trees.
Like I said - tradition.
Every Christmas Eve we'd attend a candlelight service, eat a Christmas Eve buffet with guests, and open our presents from my grandma and aunt in Pennsylvania. My mom ruined the Santa thing early, so then we'd go to bed, knowing my parents would frantically be wrapping presents for the next hour or two. (One year, they decided to wait until morning, leaving my mom to corral three eager children in their bedrooms while Dad frantically wrapped. I remember a lot of garbage bag gift wrap that year.)
Anyway, as a mom of little ones of my own, I want them to have fond memories of this season that they may continue for their children. Also as a mom, I get to pick my favorite traditions, which is ah-some! Here are a few we're going to discuss this month in the series - "Let's make a tradition."
Christmas Lights (December 11) - I will tell you this: the OKC metro has some dazzling light displays nearby, and if your kiddos get as wide-eyed as mine do with those colorful twinkling displays, then you might want to consider making Christmas lights a yearly tradition.
Candlelight Services (December 18) - One of the beautiful things about the season is having the opportunity - churchgoer or not - to attend a service where you light candles and sing Christmas carols. If you're not religious, it's a time to focus on the peace and beauty of the season, and if you are a person of faith, it is a time to remember what it's all about.
Christmas Vacation (December 25) - No! I don't mean the silly movie with the squirrel in the Christmas tree. I'm talking about the week following Christmas, when we're all on sugar overload and worrying about New Year's resolutions and credit card bills. Let's talk about some ways we can keep that Christmas spirit going into the new year, by making some post-Christmas family traditions that put the "memory" in "memorable."
So stay tuned! We have a fun, dazzling month ahead, and it's always good, when you're getting stressed, to repeat this: "Christmas only comes once a year."
In Los Angeles and later in Atlanta, my family of five (I was the middle child, so take that as you will) would pile in the minivan and carol out to some Christmas tree farm to pick a winner. It was usually an all-day event, with my mom feeling sorry for the scrawniest of trees and telling my dad we should pick it, and he and my older sister in turn telling her she was crazy - the trees don't actually care. Meanwhile, I'd be chasing my little brother and several of our Australian shepherds around, trying to keep the dogs from christening other unsuspecting people's trees.
Like I said - tradition.
Every Christmas Eve we'd attend a candlelight service, eat a Christmas Eve buffet with guests, and open our presents from my grandma and aunt in Pennsylvania. My mom ruined the Santa thing early, so then we'd go to bed, knowing my parents would frantically be wrapping presents for the next hour or two. (One year, they decided to wait until morning, leaving my mom to corral three eager children in their bedrooms while Dad frantically wrapped. I remember a lot of garbage bag gift wrap that year.)
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| Awkward family photo? Nah! The McAndrew family was super cute in the early nineties! |
Anyway, as a mom of little ones of my own, I want them to have fond memories of this season that they may continue for their children. Also as a mom, I get to pick my favorite traditions, which is ah-some! Here are a few we're going to discuss this month in the series - "Let's make a tradition."
Christmas Lights (December 11) - I will tell you this: the OKC metro has some dazzling light displays nearby, and if your kiddos get as wide-eyed as mine do with those colorful twinkling displays, then you might want to consider making Christmas lights a yearly tradition.
Candlelight Services (December 18) - One of the beautiful things about the season is having the opportunity - churchgoer or not - to attend a service where you light candles and sing Christmas carols. If you're not religious, it's a time to focus on the peace and beauty of the season, and if you are a person of faith, it is a time to remember what it's all about.
Christmas Vacation (December 25) - No! I don't mean the silly movie with the squirrel in the Christmas tree. I'm talking about the week following Christmas, when we're all on sugar overload and worrying about New Year's resolutions and credit card bills. Let's talk about some ways we can keep that Christmas spirit going into the new year, by making some post-Christmas family traditions that put the "memory" in "memorable."
So stay tuned! We have a fun, dazzling month ahead, and it's always good, when you're getting stressed, to repeat this: "Christmas only comes once a year."
Thursday, November 27, 2014
Just hear those wallets jingling...the good, the bad, and the "oh" of shopping online
First off, Happy Thanksgiving.
You're stuffed to the brim with turkey, potatoes, and oh-so-much pie, so I'm sure the last thing you want to think about is that persnickety holiday shopping. But whether you plan to burn off those calories in Black Friday mayhem (read my post on shopping retail) or score the best deals from your desk chair while shopping online, here are some important questions to ask.
Is shopping online more convenient? Um, duh. Anytime you can shop in pink bunny pajamas (where can I get those?), it's a win, win. Oh, and not battling it out for the last space in the parking lot? Extra bonus. Next question.
Do I get the best deals online? Well, first let's ask this: is price the real reason we shop online? "Not exactly. It depends on the category," says Susan Lee, a partner at Simon-Kucher, who examines trends in consumer retail practices. Consumers do flock to online outlets for electronics and toys in hopes of better prices (although the number one reason people shop for toys was better variety). But unless you do an actual price comparison, you won't know for sure, although price comparison may be something you can also achieve quickly online. Another benefit of online shopping? You can look up coupon codes at the same time and use them. But don't assume it's lower priced just because it's not in a store! It all comes down to research - especially for big ticket items.
Do I get better variety online? As mentioned, one of the number one reasons people shop for toys online is they believe they will get better variety there (also, sometimes if a toy is sold out in the store, I figure I'll be able to get it at the shopping mecca of Amazon). The question sometimes comes down to strategy. A few months ago, I was in search of a soft Elsa doll (Disney Store specific). The online Disney Store was sold out, but our local Disney Store told me when to come looking for shipments of them. Long story short, I did miss the doll, but only because the toddler had to go to the doctor the day they came in. Sometimes, talking to a salesperson (What? Talk to a stranger?) can be the payoff for getting a hard-to-find item. Make them your co-conspirator!
Can I return things online? Usually, I really want to touch and feel something before that credit card gets its workout. And that's been one of my biggest issues with online shopping - at least for some toys, clothing, and accessories. What does it really look like? Books, movies, music, many electronics - you know what you're getting. Many online sites do offer free returns, but be on the lookout for the ones that don't and keep that cash from washing down the drain!
What are the hidden costs of shopping online? When it comes to shopping online, the biggest additional price is shipping. Some stores, like B&N.com, provide free shipping on any order of any price with their $25 membership card (which also gives a 10 percent discount). But without a membership, most online stores will charge you shipping, especially under a certain price point. However, once you get the membership or reach that specific price point, happily shop on, knowing that the retailer is picking up the cost of getting your stuff to you (FYI, online shopping is helping delivery services, such as the U.S. Post Office, survive for the moment!).
So there it is! At the end of the day, money can be saved online, but those fingers are going to get a workout. Then again, if you are a die-hard shopper who craves atmosphere, just get out there!
There are no wrong choices for Christmas shopping.
Well, that wraps up our holiday shopping series (hah!). Stay tuned next month for suggestions for starting some great holiday traditions.
You're stuffed to the brim with turkey, potatoes, and oh-so-much pie, so I'm sure the last thing you want to think about is that persnickety holiday shopping. But whether you plan to burn off those calories in Black Friday mayhem (read my post on shopping retail) or score the best deals from your desk chair while shopping online, here are some important questions to ask.
Is shopping online more convenient? Um, duh. Anytime you can shop in pink bunny pajamas (where can I get those?), it's a win, win. Oh, and not battling it out for the last space in the parking lot? Extra bonus. Next question.
Do I get the best deals online? Well, first let's ask this: is price the real reason we shop online? "Not exactly. It depends on the category," says Susan Lee, a partner at Simon-Kucher, who examines trends in consumer retail practices. Consumers do flock to online outlets for electronics and toys in hopes of better prices (although the number one reason people shop for toys was better variety). But unless you do an actual price comparison, you won't know for sure, although price comparison may be something you can also achieve quickly online. Another benefit of online shopping? You can look up coupon codes at the same time and use them. But don't assume it's lower priced just because it's not in a store! It all comes down to research - especially for big ticket items.
Do I get better variety online? As mentioned, one of the number one reasons people shop for toys online is they believe they will get better variety there (also, sometimes if a toy is sold out in the store, I figure I'll be able to get it at the shopping mecca of Amazon). The question sometimes comes down to strategy. A few months ago, I was in search of a soft Elsa doll (Disney Store specific). The online Disney Store was sold out, but our local Disney Store told me when to come looking for shipments of them. Long story short, I did miss the doll, but only because the toddler had to go to the doctor the day they came in. Sometimes, talking to a salesperson (What? Talk to a stranger?) can be the payoff for getting a hard-to-find item. Make them your co-conspirator!
Can I return things online? Usually, I really want to touch and feel something before that credit card gets its workout. And that's been one of my biggest issues with online shopping - at least for some toys, clothing, and accessories. What does it really look like? Books, movies, music, many electronics - you know what you're getting. Many online sites do offer free returns, but be on the lookout for the ones that don't and keep that cash from washing down the drain!
What are the hidden costs of shopping online? When it comes to shopping online, the biggest additional price is shipping. Some stores, like B&N.com, provide free shipping on any order of any price with their $25 membership card (which also gives a 10 percent discount). But without a membership, most online stores will charge you shipping, especially under a certain price point. However, once you get the membership or reach that specific price point, happily shop on, knowing that the retailer is picking up the cost of getting your stuff to you (FYI, online shopping is helping delivery services, such as the U.S. Post Office, survive for the moment!).
So there it is! At the end of the day, money can be saved online, but those fingers are going to get a workout. Then again, if you are a die-hard shopper who craves atmosphere, just get out there!
There are no wrong choices for Christmas shopping.
Well, that wraps up our holiday shopping series (hah!). Stay tuned next month for suggestions for starting some great holiday traditions.
Thursday, November 20, 2014
Just hear those wallets jingling...3 thoughts on shopping retail
Oh yeah, we are in it now. We are up to our kneecaps in Christmas shopping lists that must be executed with efficiency and affordability, all before a non-negotiable deadline of December 25.
Cue the screaming.
Okay, okay. Count to 10 with me, take calm breaths, and chant, "I can do this."
This month, we've been taking on holiday shopping, discussing the pros and cons of buying at local stores or online. Last week I gave some reasons you might want to give those locally-owned businesses your business, but let's face it - many of us will head to a major retailer for at least some of our shopping.
So what do you need to be able to take on the big boy retailers and make the most of that money? Well, here's a few thoughts to contemplate as you drive to your shopping mecca of choice...
Consider the store credit card (but don't jump too quickly). When you reach the checkout line and you get asked that question, "Would you like to save (insert amount here) percent on your purchases today?" we all know the checker is going to promote the store credit card. While the discount can be a huge savings (such as, the Target REDcard offers 5 percent off every purchase thereafter), think about the pros and cons. The pros are that store credit cards do often give you more savings and promotions once you are on their mailing list as a cardholder, and having these cards and paying them off is also good for your credit score (see this article at bankrate.com)! However, those cards do carry high interest rates and offer more temptation, so be wary. Perhaps select to open ones only at stores you use frequently, and check to see if a debit option is available.
Do your research. No, seriously. We are a rush, rush society, but we also have more information than ever before at our fingertips through the web. Take fifteen minutes to compare big ticket items, call the retailer or check online to make sure they have the item in stock (many will do a same-day hold), and ask about price matching. This extra few minutes can save you big bucks and hours of store-hopping, so reap the rewards of the Girl (or Boy) Scout motto: Be prepared.
Be an Appy shopper. Bricks and mortar stores are getting tech savvy to keep you coming in the doors, so take advantage of that. A quick search in your phone's app store may provide you with free apps that will save big money. Apps such as the Walmart Savings Catcher does price matching for you (up to 7 days later!) and Target's Cartwheel allows you to quickly organize your offers and utilize them at checkout. Just another way your phone is taking over your life - and saving you money.
Finally, as for Black Friday (just about a week away, people!), shopping incredibly late or early, waiting in lines, or running over people with your shopping cart to get the last Olaf - well, it's really a personal thing whether it's worth it. Me? I'll spend a few extra dollars and enjoy my bed, but for others, this can be one of the exciting points in the season. Just remember it's not about all the stuff you buy - it really is about giving, and whether that means you get the perfect toy or simply give the best gift you can, your generosity will not go unappreciated.
Stay tuned next week as we take on the pros/cons of online shopping in anticipation of Black Monday!
Cue the screaming.
Okay, okay. Count to 10 with me, take calm breaths, and chant, "I can do this."
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| If you take on Black Friday, just know what you're getting into.... |
So what do you need to be able to take on the big boy retailers and make the most of that money? Well, here's a few thoughts to contemplate as you drive to your shopping mecca of choice...
Consider the store credit card (but don't jump too quickly). When you reach the checkout line and you get asked that question, "Would you like to save (insert amount here) percent on your purchases today?" we all know the checker is going to promote the store credit card. While the discount can be a huge savings (such as, the Target REDcard offers 5 percent off every purchase thereafter), think about the pros and cons. The pros are that store credit cards do often give you more savings and promotions once you are on their mailing list as a cardholder, and having these cards and paying them off is also good for your credit score (see this article at bankrate.com)! However, those cards do carry high interest rates and offer more temptation, so be wary. Perhaps select to open ones only at stores you use frequently, and check to see if a debit option is available.
Do your research. No, seriously. We are a rush, rush society, but we also have more information than ever before at our fingertips through the web. Take fifteen minutes to compare big ticket items, call the retailer or check online to make sure they have the item in stock (many will do a same-day hold), and ask about price matching. This extra few minutes can save you big bucks and hours of store-hopping, so reap the rewards of the Girl (or Boy) Scout motto: Be prepared.
Be an Appy shopper. Bricks and mortar stores are getting tech savvy to keep you coming in the doors, so take advantage of that. A quick search in your phone's app store may provide you with free apps that will save big money. Apps such as the Walmart Savings Catcher does price matching for you (up to 7 days later!) and Target's Cartwheel allows you to quickly organize your offers and utilize them at checkout. Just another way your phone is taking over your life - and saving you money.
Finally, as for Black Friday (just about a week away, people!), shopping incredibly late or early, waiting in lines, or running over people with your shopping cart to get the last Olaf - well, it's really a personal thing whether it's worth it. Me? I'll spend a few extra dollars and enjoy my bed, but for others, this can be one of the exciting points in the season. Just remember it's not about all the stuff you buy - it really is about giving, and whether that means you get the perfect toy or simply give the best gift you can, your generosity will not go unappreciated.
Stay tuned next week as we take on the pros/cons of online shopping in anticipation of Black Monday!
Thursday, November 13, 2014
Just hear those wallets jingling - Five reasons to shop local this Christmas
It's that time of year - time to get your wallet ready and your credit card warmed up. Time to find all the gifts for all the right people.
I've got to sit down. This is overwhelming already.
This November, Mom Around Town is taking on the topic of where to spend those holiday dollars in the effort to do Christmas shopping right. In future posts, I'll be talking about the pros/cons of shopping at major retailers and online outlets, but for now, I want to talk about keeping that shopping money local.
Local businesses are in quite the fight for life in most cities. With major retailers and online giants competing by sheer economy of scale, the little guys have to offer what the giants can't, and that means they often do something pretty cool - they take special care of the other little guys. That's right - you and me, the shoppers.
As I explored the crazy world of Christmas shopping, I came across five reasons I might shop local this holiday season:
1. Personalized attention. Have you ever walked into a large retail store, needed some help, and were met by the sound of crickets? Yep, I've been there. You feel kind of goofy, walking through a place calling, "Hello? Hello?" But this isn't true at most small shops. "If you need help or don't have a clue what to get someone, we have someone to help you," says Patti Tepper-Rasmussen, owner of the Learning Tree in Oklahoma City and Edmond.
2. Ready, wrap, go! Available help isn't the only thing a store like The Learning Tree has to offer. They will also wrap a gift, getting it ready for you before you even leave the store. And they're not the only ones. Many local businesses are especially helpful at Christmas, willing to go the extra mile by getting a present boxed up or putting in a special order and calling you personally when it arrives.
3. Expertise. Another aspect of shopping at locally-owned business goes hand in hand with reason #1. Not only will someone usually be available to help, but often personnel have expertise in what's being sold. "I can choose something that is best for a certain age of child," promises Learning Tree's Patti. She also says a local store may be more willing to demonstrate how items work, happy to spend time and build solid relationships with their customers.
4. Good prices! No, really! If you think you'll pay through the nose by shopping local, that's not necessarily true. Programs like the "Keep it Local OK" card and the "Allied Arts OKC" card apply to many local stores, and when you put those businesses' personalized attention with the lower prices, the value of utilizing these small stores goes way, way up.
5. And finally, put your money where your home is. "Keep sales tax money in your city and state!" urges Patti. If you shop here, the city and state benefit directly, because businesses pay taxes too, in addition to sales tax. And who wouldn't want to get money back?
So there you have it. As you and your credit card do warm-up calf stretches together, just keep all that in mind. Then go forth and buy presents.
And stay tuned next week as we talk about the pros/cons of major retail shopping!
I've got to sit down. This is overwhelming already.
This November, Mom Around Town is taking on the topic of where to spend those holiday dollars in the effort to do Christmas shopping right. In future posts, I'll be talking about the pros/cons of shopping at major retailers and online outlets, but for now, I want to talk about keeping that shopping money local.
Local businesses are in quite the fight for life in most cities. With major retailers and online giants competing by sheer economy of scale, the little guys have to offer what the giants can't, and that means they often do something pretty cool - they take special care of the other little guys. That's right - you and me, the shoppers.
As I explored the crazy world of Christmas shopping, I came across five reasons I might shop local this holiday season:
1. Personalized attention. Have you ever walked into a large retail store, needed some help, and were met by the sound of crickets? Yep, I've been there. You feel kind of goofy, walking through a place calling, "Hello? Hello?" But this isn't true at most small shops. "If you need help or don't have a clue what to get someone, we have someone to help you," says Patti Tepper-Rasmussen, owner of the Learning Tree in Oklahoma City and Edmond.
2. Ready, wrap, go! Available help isn't the only thing a store like The Learning Tree has to offer. They will also wrap a gift, getting it ready for you before you even leave the store. And they're not the only ones. Many local businesses are especially helpful at Christmas, willing to go the extra mile by getting a present boxed up or putting in a special order and calling you personally when it arrives.
3. Expertise. Another aspect of shopping at locally-owned business goes hand in hand with reason #1. Not only will someone usually be available to help, but often personnel have expertise in what's being sold. "I can choose something that is best for a certain age of child," promises Learning Tree's Patti. She also says a local store may be more willing to demonstrate how items work, happy to spend time and build solid relationships with their customers.
4. Good prices! No, really! If you think you'll pay through the nose by shopping local, that's not necessarily true. Programs like the "Keep it Local OK" card and the "Allied Arts OKC" card apply to many local stores, and when you put those businesses' personalized attention with the lower prices, the value of utilizing these small stores goes way, way up.
5. And finally, put your money where your home is. "Keep sales tax money in your city and state!" urges Patti. If you shop here, the city and state benefit directly, because businesses pay taxes too, in addition to sales tax. And who wouldn't want to get money back?
So there you have it. As you and your credit card do warm-up calf stretches together, just keep all that in mind. Then go forth and buy presents.
And stay tuned next week as we talk about the pros/cons of major retail shopping!
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Just hear those wallets jingling, ring-ting-tingling too - Taking on holiday shopping
Recently, my toddler's childcare program said they'd be giving parents a rebate. "Just choose the month you want it," the director said. "I'm guessing most people will choose December because of Christmas."
"Hah!" I replied. "Put me down for January, because that's when the credit card bill for Christmas is due."
And she laughed. "Right."
Really, we're both right, because most of us will start gearing up this month - November - for fulfilling those Christmas lists. We've got to figure out who's getting what as well as what the big item for those kiddos will be, because we all know there won't be any Olaf's from Frozen left sitting on the shelves that last week before Christmas.
But here's the thing. Shopping in general has changed over the past ten years. A lot. Now, aided by online outlets, we have more choices than ever for spending those holiday bucks, so how do you decide where to spend your shopping efforts?
Enter our topic for the month: Eeenie, meanie, miney, mo - if I'm Christmas shopping, where do I go?
Local Stores - On November 13, we will be discussing the benefits of shopping local, with wise words from one of our own local vendors, as well as a rundown of the deals a parent can take advantage of if they put their money back into small, locally-owned businesses.
Local Retailers - On November 20, we'll discuss the pros and cons of heading to your local chain retailer, the deals you can sometimes score through discount programs, and their holiday specials. We'll also review whether you should have a parka and tent ready in preparation for the morning of Black Friday.
Online Retailers - And finally, on November 27 (Happy Thanksgiving!), just a few days before "Black Monday," we will discuss the pros and cons of spending those holiday dollars online. Many of us believe things are cheaper/more available on line. Is that true? What are the benefits of shopping in pink bunny pajamas (besides being able to wear pink bunny pajamas)? What are the drawbacks? An expert in online purchasing will weigh in on the matter!
So stay tuned! And get those wallets ready to go. Because something is going to slim down by Christmas, and I'm afraid to say, it's probably not your waistline.
But that's part of the fun, right?
"Hah!" I replied. "Put me down for January, because that's when the credit card bill for Christmas is due."
And she laughed. "Right."
Really, we're both right, because most of us will start gearing up this month - November - for fulfilling those Christmas lists. We've got to figure out who's getting what as well as what the big item for those kiddos will be, because we all know there won't be any Olaf's from Frozen left sitting on the shelves that last week before Christmas.
But here's the thing. Shopping in general has changed over the past ten years. A lot. Now, aided by online outlets, we have more choices than ever for spending those holiday bucks, so how do you decide where to spend your shopping efforts?
Enter our topic for the month: Eeenie, meanie, miney, mo - if I'm Christmas shopping, where do I go?
Local Stores - On November 13, we will be discussing the benefits of shopping local, with wise words from one of our own local vendors, as well as a rundown of the deals a parent can take advantage of if they put their money back into small, locally-owned businesses.
Local Retailers - On November 20, we'll discuss the pros and cons of heading to your local chain retailer, the deals you can sometimes score through discount programs, and their holiday specials. We'll also review whether you should have a parka and tent ready in preparation for the morning of Black Friday.
Online Retailers - And finally, on November 27 (Happy Thanksgiving!), just a few days before "Black Monday," we will discuss the pros and cons of spending those holiday dollars online. Many of us believe things are cheaper/more available on line. Is that true? What are the benefits of shopping in pink bunny pajamas (besides being able to wear pink bunny pajamas)? What are the drawbacks? An expert in online purchasing will weigh in on the matter!
So stay tuned! And get those wallets ready to go. Because something is going to slim down by Christmas, and I'm afraid to say, it's probably not your waistline.
But that's part of the fun, right?
Thursday, October 30, 2014
Fall into FUN! - But be a safe trick or treater too
I have to say, having two small children who can be bended to my creative will is pretty fun. First year with two kids, we did Cinderella and a pumpkin. Second year? Ariel and Sebastian. This year? Elsa and Olaf. Can you see a trend here? Well, I know time is short. Eventually, my son will assert his own will, and the Disney princess theme will be out for him.
But for now...it's all good. And super, super cute.
However, as we get ready to take to the neighborhood streets on tomorrow's night of fright (man, that sounds so much grittier than it actually is in a neighborhood like mine!), one thing this OCD mama isn't going to do is get too comfortable and relaxed about safety. No matter how docile your neighborhood is, here are five tips, poached from various sources and my own experience, that will keep everyone a little safer on this spooky night.
1. Light the night. You don't have to go all crazy with reflective material. There are definitely better, more fun ways to keep those kids bright and shiny in the dark. Not only do stores sell cute, battery-operated lanterns now, but an even easier, cooler, and cheaper way to light those kids up is with glow necklaces, bracelets, wands, etc. You can buy a ton for a low price, and I bet the kids won't complain at all!
2. Know where you're going. Sometimes, certain neighborhoods are heralded as "the place to trick or treat." And there's nothing wrong with that. But it helps if you know someone in the neighborhood you are planning to visit, and if not, think twice about visiting strange doors. Well-lighted streets with sidewalks are a huge bonus, and it's always better when you can go with a bigger group.
3. Stay close. If your children are small, this is a no brainer. You will be walking hand in hand with them (remember, if there are no sidewalks, walk against traffic and keep the little ones on the inside!). However, if your kids are older and expect more independence, sticking close can be a bit of a challenge. Don't fret. Learn to compromise, whether that means you'll be following them in the car, parking on the corner, or checking in with them at various times.
4. You know the drill. No unwrapped candy! Hate to be a party pooper here, but I'm suspicious of anything that doesn't come in a store bought wrapper. Maybe homemade pumpkin cookies are super, super cute, but if something's not sealed, you take your chances! And that's a scary thought.
5. Finally, double check the costume. Is it highly flammable? Something your child can trip in? What about shoes? Will your little one be complaining of barking feet before you make it one street? Make sure your child is warm and comfortable for an evening trek.
Well, I hope this helps! I'm certainly ready for tomorrow. In addition to my little Elsa and Olaf, the hubby agreed to don reindeer antlers (to be Sven), and I have a snowflake necklace and white hairspray to go as "Winter." And if we get bored with trick or treating, maybe the four of us will simply go build a snowman.
You know, if this were a snowy place and all.
That's all for October! Stay tuned next month when we take on holiday shopping!
But for now...it's all good. And super, super cute.
However, as we get ready to take to the neighborhood streets on tomorrow's night of fright (man, that sounds so much grittier than it actually is in a neighborhood like mine!), one thing this OCD mama isn't going to do is get too comfortable and relaxed about safety. No matter how docile your neighborhood is, here are five tips, poached from various sources and my own experience, that will keep everyone a little safer on this spooky night.
1. Light the night. You don't have to go all crazy with reflective material. There are definitely better, more fun ways to keep those kids bright and shiny in the dark. Not only do stores sell cute, battery-operated lanterns now, but an even easier, cooler, and cheaper way to light those kids up is with glow necklaces, bracelets, wands, etc. You can buy a ton for a low price, and I bet the kids won't complain at all!
2. Know where you're going. Sometimes, certain neighborhoods are heralded as "the place to trick or treat." And there's nothing wrong with that. But it helps if you know someone in the neighborhood you are planning to visit, and if not, think twice about visiting strange doors. Well-lighted streets with sidewalks are a huge bonus, and it's always better when you can go with a bigger group.
3. Stay close. If your children are small, this is a no brainer. You will be walking hand in hand with them (remember, if there are no sidewalks, walk against traffic and keep the little ones on the inside!). However, if your kids are older and expect more independence, sticking close can be a bit of a challenge. Don't fret. Learn to compromise, whether that means you'll be following them in the car, parking on the corner, or checking in with them at various times.
4. You know the drill. No unwrapped candy! Hate to be a party pooper here, but I'm suspicious of anything that doesn't come in a store bought wrapper. Maybe homemade pumpkin cookies are super, super cute, but if something's not sealed, you take your chances! And that's a scary thought.
5. Finally, double check the costume. Is it highly flammable? Something your child can trip in? What about shoes? Will your little one be complaining of barking feet before you make it one street? Make sure your child is warm and comfortable for an evening trek.
Well, I hope this helps! I'm certainly ready for tomorrow. In addition to my little Elsa and Olaf, the hubby agreed to don reindeer antlers (to be Sven), and I have a snowflake necklace and white hairspray to go as "Winter." And if we get bored with trick or treating, maybe the four of us will simply go build a snowman.
You know, if this were a snowy place and all.
That's all for October! Stay tuned next month when we take on holiday shopping!
Thursday, October 23, 2014
Fall into FUN - Lions and Tigers and Bears, oh my! Let's go Haunt the Zoo...
Okay. I'll admit it. I've become a bit of a zoo rat.
Yeah, the family and I, we like to get going early on a Saturday morning, beat the traffic to the Oklahoma City Zoo, and sneak into the petting zoo before it becomes a zoo (hah!). Then it's a fun-filled race to see as many animals as we can before the two-year-old melts down over the penny machine.
So, imagine how excited we are about this year's 31st Haunt the Zoo! In an effort to bring you some of the best the area has to offer in spookified entertainment (such as the nearby Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch and Lake Arcadia's Storybook Forest), I figured this event is a another great way to lead up to the final spooky day of the year. Besides, if you paid as much as I did for a preschooler Olaf costume, you're going to want to get as much mileage out of that baby as you can.
Presented by the Children's Hospital Volunteers and Kohl's Cares, this year's Haunt the Zoo runs 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. from Sunday, October 26, through Friday, October 31. Not only do children get the opportunity to follow the pumpkin-lined pathway that stops at fantasy-themed booths to collect treats from volunteers, but the price of admission ($6 in advance or $7 at the gate) includes an official treat bag. Accompanying adults ages 18 and older are admitted free.
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Yeah, the family and I, we like to get going early on a Saturday morning, beat the traffic to the Oklahoma City Zoo, and sneak into the petting zoo before it becomes a zoo (hah!). Then it's a fun-filled race to see as many animals as we can before the two-year-old melts down over the penny machine.
Presented by the Children's Hospital Volunteers and Kohl's Cares, this year's Haunt the Zoo runs 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. from Sunday, October 26, through Friday, October 31. Not only do children get the opportunity to follow the pumpkin-lined pathway that stops at fantasy-themed booths to collect treats from volunteers, but the price of admission ($6 in advance or $7 at the gate) includes an official treat bag. Accompanying adults ages 18 and older are admitted free.
"As a mom (and of course, a huge Haunt the Zoo fan), I
can tell you that this is a great event for families!" says Candice
Rennels, marketing and public relations manager for the Oklahoma City Zoo. “Haunt the Zoo mixes the fun of
trick-or-treating with the uniqueness of the Zoo. Each night families can
experience the lights and sights of Haunt the Zoo as the event trail comes to
life. The 21 themed booths along the trail feature family-friendly themes,
decorations and props that are 'Oh so merry and not too scary,' making it
perfect for little ones."
Well, I'm sold. Sounds like an event the kids won't forget anytime soon. And there's nothing wrong with making even Halloween a special memory.
Stay tuned next week as we gear up for trick or treating!
Thursday, October 16, 2014
Fall into FUN - Getting happy/spooky at Storybook Forest
Well, the Olaf costume came just yesterday, and my two-year-old son is pretty pumped - to look at it. No worries, I'm sure he'll be ready for it's cuddly warmth when Storybook Forest opens on October 23.
Fingers crossed the weather will cooperate.
Anyway, my little guy is trying to figure out this Halloween thingy, so his older sister now has him doing the craziest thing. First he says "Happy" with a bright smile, followed by "Spooky" in an obligatory deep voice and complimented by wide eyes. (Update...we discovered they learned this from an episode of Team Umizoomi).
It's so very funny. And it reminds me of exactly what Storybook Forest feels like to me. First off, there's nothing like driving up to Lake Arcadia, parking, and breathing in the smell of campfire as people roast marshmallows and sit on hay bales. This is all before you get in line for the main event - the "forest." You enter under a sign that says, "Once Upon a Time," which sets you on a wooded path.
Spooky!
Once on the path, you begin a journey through nursery rhymes and fairy tales. One of the first things you'll see is Rapunzel letting down her hair and throwing candy at you.
Happy!
Of course, as you wind through the fairy tales, your child receives more candy at each one. (BTW, don't forget your trick or treat buckets! I've learned my lesson the hard way, with coat pockets stuffed to the brim with melting chocolate!) You may find some of the setups a little disturbing, but nothing too scary for the kids - Snow White, the three little pigs, and Hansel and Gretel's witch, to name a few.
Spooky!
At the end of the trail, one finally arrives at the hayride (get there early, as the line gets long) and carnival type games that bring back those fall festivals my school used to have. Little prizes can be added to your child's candy stash, and your little one will go home with the scent of autumn in their spirit and their hair (I means, seriously, that campfire smell really sticks around!).
Happy!
So check it out, and if you haven't already, check out last week's post on the Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch. Because autumn comes 'round only once a year, and if you blink, you'll miss it.
Spooky!
Fingers crossed the weather will cooperate.
Anyway, my little guy is trying to figure out this Halloween thingy, so his older sister now has him doing the craziest thing. First he says "Happy" with a bright smile, followed by "Spooky" in an obligatory deep voice and complimented by wide eyes. (Update...we discovered they learned this from an episode of Team Umizoomi).
It's so very funny. And it reminds me of exactly what Storybook Forest feels like to me. First off, there's nothing like driving up to Lake Arcadia, parking, and breathing in the smell of campfire as people roast marshmallows and sit on hay bales. This is all before you get in line for the main event - the "forest." You enter under a sign that says, "Once Upon a Time," which sets you on a wooded path.
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| Lake Arcadia at dusk, right before heading into Storybook Forest! |
Spooky!
Once on the path, you begin a journey through nursery rhymes and fairy tales. One of the first things you'll see is Rapunzel letting down her hair and throwing candy at you.
Happy!
Of course, as you wind through the fairy tales, your child receives more candy at each one. (BTW, don't forget your trick or treat buckets! I've learned my lesson the hard way, with coat pockets stuffed to the brim with melting chocolate!) You may find some of the setups a little disturbing, but nothing too scary for the kids - Snow White, the three little pigs, and Hansel and Gretel's witch, to name a few.
Spooky!
At the end of the trail, one finally arrives at the hayride (get there early, as the line gets long) and carnival type games that bring back those fall festivals my school used to have. Little prizes can be added to your child's candy stash, and your little one will go home with the scent of autumn in their spirit and their hair (I means, seriously, that campfire smell really sticks around!).
Happy!
So check it out, and if you haven't already, check out last week's post on the Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch. Because autumn comes 'round only once a year, and if you blink, you'll miss it.
Spooky!
Thursday, October 9, 2014
Fall into FUN! - Let's go a pumpkin' patchin'
Ever since my family and I settled in Edmond several years ago, we have made a yearly journey (with our neighbors!) to the Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch. The first year, I had to chase my eighteenth-month-old daughter, who was overcome with excitement at the site of pallets upon pallets of pumpkins. This was on an unseasonably warm October day while I handled the exhaustion that comes from being two months pregnant. But it was so much fun, I vowed to return every year.
And I have.
The next year, it was unseasonably cold, my two-year-old daughter was now obsessed with the pygmy goats, and my six-month-old son looked like an Eskimo, barely able to be spotted amongst the blankets, mittens, and hats we covered him in. But we still managed a hayride.
And last year? Well, with two walkers, I had my work cut out for me. The three-year-old wanted a pony ride, as well as treats from the country store, and my eighteenth-month-old son was like, "Hey! This fire stuff is awesome!"
I said all that to say this: every year has been a treat, which means, I'm pumped to get back there in just the next few weeks. In case you haven't been out to this nearby pumpkin patch, and you're dying to try it, here are a few of the highlights...
Pumpkins! Well, duh. In fact, a small pumpkin is included with the price of admission, although many others are for sale.
Farm animals and more! Parkhurst will let you feed goats, hold a bunny, and even ride a pony (pony rides do have an extra charge). Just remember to purchase food for feeding the animals from Parkhurst, and then get a kick out of watching them mill around you like paparazzi stalking a celebrity!
Corn maze. Forget the movie Signs. Have your own exhilarating adventure (hopefully alien free!) in Parkhurst's offering.
Hayrides. Because nothing says "autumn" quite like it.
Concessions and more! Visit the fall-flavored in-door concession stand and then enjoy roasting marshmallows over a fire pit or lounging in a hammock. There's even a small fort for young children to play in (as well as a Cinderella carriage--pictured above--for extra photo ops).
Well, I hope that gives you some motivation to get in the fall spirit. For a comprehensive list of other pumpkin patches in the area, check out this link. Otherwise, stay tuned for my post about Storybook Forest next week!
And I have.
The next year, it was unseasonably cold, my two-year-old daughter was now obsessed with the pygmy goats, and my six-month-old son looked like an Eskimo, barely able to be spotted amongst the blankets, mittens, and hats we covered him in. But we still managed a hayride.
And last year? Well, with two walkers, I had my work cut out for me. The three-year-old wanted a pony ride, as well as treats from the country store, and my eighteenth-month-old son was like, "Hey! This fire stuff is awesome!"
I said all that to say this: every year has been a treat, which means, I'm pumped to get back there in just the next few weeks. In case you haven't been out to this nearby pumpkin patch, and you're dying to try it, here are a few of the highlights...
Pumpkins! Well, duh. In fact, a small pumpkin is included with the price of admission, although many others are for sale.
Farm animals and more! Parkhurst will let you feed goats, hold a bunny, and even ride a pony (pony rides do have an extra charge). Just remember to purchase food for feeding the animals from Parkhurst, and then get a kick out of watching them mill around you like paparazzi stalking a celebrity!
Corn maze. Forget the movie Signs. Have your own exhilarating adventure (hopefully alien free!) in Parkhurst's offering.
Hayrides. Because nothing says "autumn" quite like it.
Concessions and more! Visit the fall-flavored in-door concession stand and then enjoy roasting marshmallows over a fire pit or lounging in a hammock. There's even a small fort for young children to play in (as well as a Cinderella carriage--pictured above--for extra photo ops).
Well, I hope that gives you some motivation to get in the fall spirit. For a comprehensive list of other pumpkin patches in the area, check out this link. Otherwise, stay tuned for my post about Storybook Forest next week!
Thursday, October 2, 2014
Fall into FUN! - A blog lineup that will have you chanting "We love pumpkins!"
Okay. The last few months, we've been a little serious here at Mom Around Town. And I know it's totally awesome that we have come to some deeper understanding of life. Sit with me and chant, "Ooommmm."
But moving on...
This month I want to talk to you about all the ah-mazing fall things this area has to offer to get you in that autumn spirit. I mean, really, just shout, "Pumpkin Spice Latte!" and I'm about as autumn-spirited as they come. But in case you're trying to work up the energy to spiderweb your door or put some spooky stuff in that yard, here are some opportunities to getcha in the mood!
October 9 - Pumpkins, pumpkins, we love pumpkins! I'm going to take us out to Arcadia, where the Parkhurst Ranch offers a petting zoo, pony rides, hayrides, bonfires, and of course, pumpkins! Oh, and there's a corn maze too. Why does that always make me think of the movie Signs? So creepy...but even better for getting in the spooky spirit!
October 16 - Lake Arcadia's Storybook Forest! Opening October 23 this year, the Storybook Forest offers those kiddos the chance to trick or treat with all their favorite story book characters, from Rapunzel to the Three Little Pigs. Also, not only can your kids dress up and explore the lovely trail through the woods, but there are carnival-like games at the end as well.
October 23 - Haunt the Zoo! What's more fun than seeing all those crazy animals? Seeing them while your kid is dressed in a rockin' costume, of course, at Haunt the Zoo! Starting October 26, this event gets the week of Halloween started with a roar.
October 30 - Trick or Treat Safety. Did I say we're going to have fun this month? I did. I totally did. But on this night before the scariest night of all, we'll be addressing the basics of trick or treating safety, with some cool ideas to keep your children from thinking, "Parents are such a drag."
So stay tuned for some spookilicious information! Because those of us with kids need to participate in this stuff while we've got an excuse to do so!
But moving on...
This month I want to talk to you about all the ah-mazing fall things this area has to offer to get you in that autumn spirit. I mean, really, just shout, "Pumpkin Spice Latte!" and I'm about as autumn-spirited as they come. But in case you're trying to work up the energy to spiderweb your door or put some spooky stuff in that yard, here are some opportunities to getcha in the mood!
October 9 - Pumpkins, pumpkins, we love pumpkins! I'm going to take us out to Arcadia, where the Parkhurst Ranch offers a petting zoo, pony rides, hayrides, bonfires, and of course, pumpkins! Oh, and there's a corn maze too. Why does that always make me think of the movie Signs? So creepy...but even better for getting in the spooky spirit!
October 16 - Lake Arcadia's Storybook Forest! Opening October 23 this year, the Storybook Forest offers those kiddos the chance to trick or treat with all their favorite story book characters, from Rapunzel to the Three Little Pigs. Also, not only can your kids dress up and explore the lovely trail through the woods, but there are carnival-like games at the end as well.
October 23 - Haunt the Zoo! What's more fun than seeing all those crazy animals? Seeing them while your kid is dressed in a rockin' costume, of course, at Haunt the Zoo! Starting October 26, this event gets the week of Halloween started with a roar.
October 30 - Trick or Treat Safety. Did I say we're going to have fun this month? I did. I totally did. But on this night before the scariest night of all, we'll be addressing the basics of trick or treating safety, with some cool ideas to keep your children from thinking, "Parents are such a drag."
So stay tuned for some spookilicious information! Because those of us with kids need to participate in this stuff while we've got an excuse to do so!
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